Conversations

Conversations

Conversations draws you deeper into the life story of someone you may have heard about, but never met. Journey into their world, joining them on epic adventures to unfamiliar places, back in time to wild moments of history, and into their deepest memories, to be moved by personal stories of resilience and redemption. Hosted by Richard Fidler and Sarah Kanowski, Conversations is the ABC's most popular long-form interview program. Every day we explore the vast tapestry of human experience, weaving together narratives from history, science, art, and personal storytelling. Conversations Live is coming to the stage! Join Sarah Kanowski and Richard Fidler for an unmissable night of unforgettable stories, behind-the-scenes secrets, and surprise guests. Australia’s most-loved podcast — live, up close, and in the moment. Find out more at the Conversations website.
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Psychologist Kerrie Lumbewe on trying to unpack what has happened inside ordinary people that has made loving one another so difficult. Kerrie Lumbewe is a psychologist who specialises in love and relationships. She spends her days sitting with people as they try and work out how to make things work; to understand how they can be in a partnership and still feel so alone; to make sense of how two people who started out crazy about each other can end up making each other crazy. These people desperately want to stop hurting one another, but are also obsessed with finding someone to blame, or labelling someone else as toxic. Kerrie has witnessed many personal accounts of love and desire, heartbreak, secrets and betrayal. She has seen up close what allows relationships to flourish, or to fold; and how ordinary people can start making sense of love. And Kerrie says our unfettered access to social media in the age of information is drastically changing how we relate to and love each other. Kerrie's forthcoming book…

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Why is it so difficult to love each other?

Psychologist Kerrie Lumbewe on trying to unpack what has happened inside ordinary people that has made loving one another so difficult. Kerrie Lumbewe is a psychologist who specialises in love and relationships. She spends her days sitting with people as they try and work out how to make things work; to understand how they can be in a partnership and still feel so alone; to make sense of how two people who started out crazy about each other can end up making each other crazy. These people desperately want to stop hurting one another, but are also obsessed with finding someone to blame, or labelling someone else as toxic. Kerrie has witnessed many personal accounts of love and desire, heartbreak, secrets and betrayal. She has seen up close what allows relationships to flourish, or to fold; and how ordinary people can start making sense of love. And Kerrie says our unfettered access to social media in the age of information is drastically changing how we relate to and love each other. Kerrie's forthcoming book…

28 Oct 2026
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Encore: Bonnie Garmus on the spark of anger which began a whole new life, in her 60s

In this interview, author Bonnie Garmus discusses her personal connection to rowing and the intense teamwork required by the sport. She reflects on her childhood, including her struggles with a stutter, her family's move to Bogota, Colombia, and the profound impact of witnessing extreme poverty and the dangers of the drug wars. Garmus details her professional journey from copywriter to novelist, navigating extreme rejection through persistence inspired by her rowing background. She also shares the inspiration behind 'Lessons in Chemistry,' her experiences with chemistry-related kitchen fires during research, and how her dog, Friday, inspired a character in her work.

27 Oct 2026
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Zoe Terakes and the mythic tales of gods, sex and magical transformations

Author Zoe Tarrakis explores the intersection of her trans identity with ancient Greek mythology, specifically focusing on themes of transformation and fluidity found in Cretan history. She discusses how these ancient narratives reflect a long-standing human experience of gender diversity. The conversation also delves into personal histories, including her family's migration from Greece to Australia and her experiences growing up in Sydney. Tarrakis shares reflections on the impact of acting on self-exploration, the physical realities of hormone replacement therapy, and the importance of finding community amidst rising transphobia.

26 Oct 2026
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Why Anthony LaPaglia is unapologetically irritable

Actor Anthony LaPaglia reflects on his turbulent childhood in Adelaide, where domestic instability and a volatile home life led him to find escape in books and classic cinema. He traces his journey from the soccer fields of Australia to discovering theater in Sydney, eventually moving to New York City. LaPaglia recounts his early struggles in New York, including working as a bartender and navigating the gritty atmosphere of the 1980s, which ultimately led to his film breakthrough in 'Betsy's Wedding'. He also shares intimate reflections on his experiences with addiction, working with legendary playwright Arthur Miller, and his personal philosophy on embracing fear in his professional career.

23 Oct 2026
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Encore: The incandescent life of fashion visionary Jenny Kee

Fashion designer Jenny Key discusses her journey from a childhood shaped by dyslexia and ADHD in Australia to the vibrant 1960s London fashion scene, where she worked alongside rock icons like Jimi Hendrix. She recounts her transition back to Australia and the co-founding of the boutique Flamingo Park with a distinct 50s aesthetic. The episode also explores profound personal transformations, including surviving the harrowing Granville train disaster in 1977 and navigating the dissolution of her creative partnerships. Ultimately, Jenny reflects on her evolution from a high-profile designer to a solitary, practicing Buddhist living in the Blue Mountains.

22 Oct 2026